My mother Narc when getting out of the Stay home and spoil my Grandkids bear T-shirt car on a shopping trip with my visiting children, her older children, said that every child had to hold my hand. She is also with my sister. Mom said it was me, I meant to be friends with my children and then hold my sister’s hand. I hurt but took my baby’s hand. Spend as little time as possible with my mother living in the US. She lives in Toronto.
Or we visit. One day my mother asked me to drive her to my sister’s house because she volunteered to look after children. We all got out of the car and my mother informed me and my children were not allowed to enter the sister’s house to play with the Stay home and spoil my Grandkids bear T-shirt children (first cousin). Now the door is open and one of my kids is probably playing with a toy in the front door. Mom told us all to leave, took the toy out of my son’s hand and said that you are not allowed to play with this. We leave and go to college with children of the day.